.... A free newsletter about midlife transition

Your Next Chapter: The Year You Stop Chasing Clarity Don’t let the calendar pressure you into misreading the moment. January has a familiar rhythm. You know the moves. Decide.Commit.Get clear. You’ve done it all before.A lifetime of new roles, new plans, and new solutions. In those earlier chapters, clarity came from effort.From thinking harder.From planning more.From pushing through. Effort compounded. Results followed. Until—often quietly—they didn’t. Nothing broke.Nothing blew up.No crisis...

Your Next Chapter: What if you didn’t wait for clarity? Before writing this issue, I did something I hadn’t planned to do. I went back and reread all 21 issues of Your Next Chapter I’ve published so far. I didn’t do it to polish or optimize.I did it to slow down and notice what I may have missed. Here’s what stood out. The early issues were thoughtful.Careful.Useful. They were also a little guarded. I could see myself trying to bring value —to sound prepared, grounded, helpful. That made...

Your Next Chapter: The Springsteen lines that finally made sense. I came across a short meditation last week in 24 Hours a Day—a book that’s been a touchstone for me since my 30’s. It begins: “Most of us have had to live through the dark time of our lives… when we were full of struggle and care, worry and remorse, when we felt deeply the tragedy of life.” If midlife is anything, it’s a time when many of us become intimately familiar with those dark stretches. It’s a season that’s often longer...

Your Next Chapter: When Strength Takes a New Shape It happened somewhere between the beige carpet, the endless waffle-maker beep, and the sound of suitcases dragging across tile. I realized I’m back in a club I never wanted to join. The truth that asks strength to take a new shape. It’s Day 14. Starting week three on a trip that wasn’t planned — and somehow was inevitable. We’re here as a family to face the truth. The kind of truth that asks strength to take a new shape.A truth that shifts...

Your Next Chapter: When Life Says "Let go." A story about release, ritual, and the quiet work of midlife. Something interesting happens in midlife. We get wiser.We get clearer. And we also carry more. More responsibility. More memories. More inner turning points with nothing to mark them. Childhood gives us rituals without asking — birthdays, first days of school. But midlife? Midlife is full of transitions that happen quietly inside us. We lose parents and try to keep life steady. We evolve...

Your Next Chapter: What’s Your Why? In early October, Marcia and I were one of seventeen couples sitting in a circle at the Modern Elder Academy in Baja. The air was warm, the sea roared with the energy of twin hurricanes, and the room was filled with curiosity, courage, and just a hint of shared anxiety about what might surface in the week ahead. Everyone there had lived enough life to have both stories and scars. We came from different paths—executives, educators, entrepreneurs, and...

Your Next Chapter: Midlife restlessness is a signal. Maybe you know the feeling: you’ve worked hard to get where you are, but instead of feeling settled, you feel restless — like you should be doing something else, something more. Restlessness can wear you down — or wake you up. The choice is yours. We’ve gathered experience, climbed ladders, checked the boxes — yet we feel the urge to shake things up. Sometimes that energy is exciting. Other times, it just leaves us tired. I’ve been there....

Your Next Chapter: It's never too late to trust your inner compass. Not long ago, I had an “aha” moment that surprised me. At 65, I discovered that I meet the criteria for a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) — a term I hadn’t heard until recently. That discovery didn’t erase anything from my past; it reframed it. Suddenly, so many random or frustrating career moments made sense: • Why I sometimes felt exhausted by noisy offices and chaotic workplaces • Why I replayed difficult conversations long...

Your Next Chapter: Face your fear, one stroke at a time. Fear doesn’t vanish — it’s managed, stroke by stroke. Here’s how to keep moving when there’s no shore in sight. W. T. F. am I doing here? Half a mile from shore, alone in a Central Florida lake. The pack has disappeared ahead of me. I bob in the open water, chest heaving, wetsuit pressing tight, the question rises with every heartbeat: “What if I can’t make it?” When Fear Hits ... When you’re treading water this far out, you have to...